What makes a person sexy? In my opinion, its your personality and your attitude towards life along with ablity to be desirable indoors. From childhood we were imbibed with beliefs like women are more into fashion and men are more into gizmos. Women don't understand their finances as well as their male accountant. Women are weaker at repairing cars and gadgets and understanding tyre types and speedometers. Let us go to the root of it to know why are women like this? or rather men like that and who is sexier?
Life of a young girl is an interesting illustration. She is a fresher at work, coping with changes in environment from college to corporate life. Dealing with male attention and protecting her integrity, proving her worth in office, dressing the part and ensuring its covered and well turned out. Managing her menustral cycles with heeled shoes and an alert mind to avoid screwing up. If she has a boyfriend, then balancing time with him and family. Keeping energy levels and positivity high because no one wants a cranky complaining girl friend. Feeding her femnine side through regular hair removals and beauty maintanence regimes, which will include a visit to the parlour atleast once in 2 weeks. Shopping for newer trends and keeping herself updated with information from the glamworld. Because she has been gifted with beauty and its her natural inherited trait to protect it. Afterall you dont want a noble price where you cannot make out whether the recipient is a man or a woman.
As she grows older, she has to make shift in her lifestyle and home to marry into a new family and adapt to their surroundings. It continues and rather gets worse when she adorns motherhood and takes up a full time parallel job adding to your existing work profile. Not leaving aside the weight of carrying the baby for 9 months and go through his delivery, like a tired hand cart puller.
Now lets us compare a macho's life. He has to grow up playing with his friends and not caring whether his shorts or jersey rise higher during the game. He can just step out of his bed and leave the house. Wear only trunks to the pool even with the hairiest legs. He doesn't have to go through the ordeal of putting and removing make up. He has more time to focus on his work because a woman, whether his mom or wife back home is looking into keeping the house in order and food on his plate. His sexual desires are oh so incomplete without a woman, who has to be creative at even in that area. He sure knows more about parking the car right and changing a punctured tyre because there is nothing more critical in his life than that. He has to do too little with himself thus he can look around and gather more from his environment. He doesn't have to handle males starring at him if he didn't buckle his first two shirt buttons. Life is easier and less deep. His hair is short too so neither does he need to ensure its extra care and style.
These are general observations about the reason for differences in the two sexes and their respective areas of excellence. There are exceptions in both categories. But the fact remains that despite a woman's pre occupied life she has the ability and potential to evolve through names like Indra Nooyi, Sonia Gandhi, Oprah WInfrey, Chanda Kochhar or Kathryn Bigelow and that makes her too sexy. Make way boys..
true feminist ! :)
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