India is the land of emotions. One cannot oversee the dominance of festivals, family functions, daily customs/religious affairs and the numerous drama that surrounds our lives. But the most stark and in your face emotion that every girl grows up with or well used to grow up (discounting the current western culture obsessed generation) with is the presence of romance and love!!
It sounds super filmy and unreal now but it is a fact as I know of many girls whose lives actually are surrounded by their love or lover! Its is mushy, sweet and well ideal to fall in love but the scary part is how far will you go and at what cost to get your love?
What I am building upon is that if for some reason one cannot be with the guy/girl of their choice and one actually ends up with another person can one find happiness? Should one keep sulking or live in a fantasy about how it could have been or should one move on and be with the second contender?
Why is that relationships are such a big deal in life, when one has such plenty of other mediums to nourish their minds into? For instance, ones profession, hobby, friends, food, destinations, health, home and if your still efficient and have time on hand, give back to society by social work.! I do understand that a special relationship keeps you going and sees you through all the lows and highs but hey your the one who called it special and you have the right to re christen it!
Cut the drama out..relationships are at times over rated. One adjusts so well with their parents and siblings that we are born with, we don't question their presence and decide that I want to look out for a change, then why should it be different for a companion?
Then of course the question is when do u stop looking out, when do you settle in for what you have? Answer is when you decide to get in to a relation. Do all your research, indecisive thinking, boons and banes analysis before you get in it. But once you commit yourself to it, make it work!! ..Quitting is not brave, changing is..Besides, when relationships are kept at par with other things in our lives, they get tamed and are well-behaved :p