When something different from what we expected happens we call it BAD. Just think about the following questions:
-Would India's history and freedom fighters existed in the absence of the East India Company's tyrannical rules?
-Would Dhirubhai Ambani receive the same recognition if he hadn't been through the struggle ?
-Would our stock exchange rules be so sound in the absence of the Ketan Parekh scams?
All these questions bring out a simple funda that whenever something bad happens it is actually a foundation for something great to emerge. For all those 'bad' times that you went through in your life, some of which seem fatal are all jumping boards for you.
A bad job gives you a chance to discover that you're not meant for this field and your interests lie elsewhere, which is a very important discovery that saves you from wasting the rest of your life in it. A bad relationship teaches you about what to avoid in your next one, what's better, it gives you a chance to know and be with a superior person. A dishonest friendship teaches you about detachment. A rejected activity that you gave your heart, helped you fetch your potentials and those of others.
With time and events, one learns but for that one has to be willing to learn and accept. Most often, it burns your heart, when you're suffering, (in some cases it takes years for people to realise how the adversity helped them), but its temporary, at the end of it, we are all positive people, who believe in happy endings. Our mind only buys that.
So don't worry if it wasn't your day today, it still made sense because you know more today than yesterday !
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Monday, May 10, 2010
SUGGEST ME TITLE
The summer heat is enough for us to battle. Let us giving our genius minds a break from the serious thinking (that my excuse for not having a title) and get a little naughty, flirty and wild!
What is it that gets us excited about ourselves instantly? For most of us it is compliments. When you compliment/ flirt with a guy or girl, you give them a moment that makes them feel great about themselves and instantly brings them in a good mood. Especially if it came from a person of the opposite sex.
For those of us, who agree with me read on for more on how to sustain the attention and those of us who think otherwise, don't waste your time.
Why do you prefer Arjun Rampal over Rajpal Yadav, when the latter is a more experienced actor? Because AR looks gorgeous!
Looks and personality are the pre requisites for gathering eye balls. If you are desparate, it will show in the way you dress. If you think you're hot, it will reflect. So don't pretend. The mirror will tell you whether you look good enough or not? The benchmark for this is set by your own taste buds, your exposure to different cultures and your overall lifestyle - It is not so complicated but if you're still lost, ask any girl for help ;P
Second is conversation. However amazing you look it won't work if you can't express. It doesn't mean you have to be talkative or OTT but let your hair down (no one is interested to know your stress details) and be yourself - This is tough to execute for some, easy way out : 3 drinks and good music !
Third is attitude. Don't focus on just 1 person, Ya I know you find just that one guy attractive but don't show it. Play a little. Its fun to test different waters before settling down on one - You will enjoy this the most!
Fourth is believe in yourself, not my random thoughts! You're good and will always stay in the league :)
Fifth says, if you can't do any of the above, don't stress. Just compliment people around you and see the benefits ;) - This is risky because if you're fake, you're rejected forever !
What is it that gets us excited about ourselves instantly? For most of us it is compliments. When you compliment/ flirt with a guy or girl, you give them a moment that makes them feel great about themselves and instantly brings them in a good mood. Especially if it came from a person of the opposite sex.
For those of us, who agree with me read on for more on how to sustain the attention and those of us who think otherwise, don't waste your time.
Why do you prefer Arjun Rampal over Rajpal Yadav, when the latter is a more experienced actor? Because AR looks gorgeous!
Looks and personality are the pre requisites for gathering eye balls. If you are desparate, it will show in the way you dress. If you think you're hot, it will reflect. So don't pretend. The mirror will tell you whether you look good enough or not? The benchmark for this is set by your own taste buds, your exposure to different cultures and your overall lifestyle - It is not so complicated but if you're still lost, ask any girl for help ;P
Second is conversation. However amazing you look it won't work if you can't express. It doesn't mean you have to be talkative or OTT but let your hair down (no one is interested to know your stress details) and be yourself - This is tough to execute for some, easy way out : 3 drinks and good music !
Third is attitude. Don't focus on just 1 person, Ya I know you find just that one guy attractive but don't show it. Play a little. Its fun to test different waters before settling down on one - You will enjoy this the most!
Fourth is believe in yourself, not my random thoughts! You're good and will always stay in the league :)
Fifth says, if you can't do any of the above, don't stress. Just compliment people around you and see the benefits ;) - This is risky because if you're fake, you're rejected forever !
Monday, May 3, 2010
THE F** WORD
Fun, a 3 letter word can fit into any sentence. Everything we do in our day can be accompanied with fun. Like bunking work and going for an unplanned holiday is fun, going sky diving and doing things that break mundane tasks are fun. Photography is fun as you project the world through your lens. Fun is also the creativity we add to the daily chores we perform. Like the way you research on your audience and frame a strategy for your brand, or ways in which you bug your boss/girlfriend/boyfriend/friend just to see that irritated expression!
We're naturally creative. We can make medicines, computers, stereos, movies, songs, and many more things. Humans are blessed with a creative mind that can do good to the creators as well as the users. So let's give ourselves some credit and explore how we can rescue our naughty bones from the boring, routine ones.
End your day with an activity you love. Like, hear your fav music, get clean sheets & night wear, cuddle up, cream yourself, read or simply lie down to relax every muscle. Great sleep will gear you up to conquer the next day with ideas to add more fun.
Start your day by looking at the trees or the ocean, get a fancy toothbrush, a minty- yummy toothpaste, get a new mug for your tea/coffee every 2 months so that'll excite you, eat different breakfast everyday, read jokes and look for humor in everything that happens around you. Like if your mum nags you for everything, try nagging her back by asking her about all her whereabouts. If your lift man doesn't bring up the lift when you ring the bell take the steps and ring the bell at every floor that you walk down to trouble him. The point is to get naughty and just laugh at all the chaos by adding fun to it. I know this sounds sadist but as long as its in good faith and not hurting anyone its cool. You're adding some humor in the opposite person's life as well.
People anyway live with so much baggage, lets ease out a bit so that we have moments to smile, when we take an overview.
We're naturally creative. We can make medicines, computers, stereos, movies, songs, and many more things. Humans are blessed with a creative mind that can do good to the creators as well as the users. So let's give ourselves some credit and explore how we can rescue our naughty bones from the boring, routine ones.
End your day with an activity you love. Like, hear your fav music, get clean sheets & night wear, cuddle up, cream yourself, read or simply lie down to relax every muscle. Great sleep will gear you up to conquer the next day with ideas to add more fun.
Start your day by looking at the trees or the ocean, get a fancy toothbrush, a minty- yummy toothpaste, get a new mug for your tea/coffee every 2 months so that'll excite you, eat different breakfast everyday, read jokes and look for humor in everything that happens around you. Like if your mum nags you for everything, try nagging her back by asking her about all her whereabouts. If your lift man doesn't bring up the lift when you ring the bell take the steps and ring the bell at every floor that you walk down to trouble him. The point is to get naughty and just laugh at all the chaos by adding fun to it. I know this sounds sadist but as long as its in good faith and not hurting anyone its cool. You're adding some humor in the opposite person's life as well.
People anyway live with so much baggage, lets ease out a bit so that we have moments to smile, when we take an overview.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
ALMOST THERE
We are so close and yet so far..We have a degree that we achieved after 3 or 4 yrs of struggle and yet don't have a job or a settled/stable career. There is a guy you're dating but still not sure whether you can trust him for life.. You have your own business set up but still not achieving your targets..You are hanging out at the best of places but not with the company you'd like to be with.
We are so close to our dreams and yet so far from them.
A close person in my life is nearing the most memorable moment of his life and I am not with him. All I get to say is, 'I wish I was there.' Feel so helpless and stuck. As if I have wings but they're tied up. How will I pull through the weekend without thinking and feeling sad about this..
But at times like these I guess you have to leave things to destiny, to the belief that I will get only what is meant for me. So you don't end up thinking about it and don't ignore what you have already got. Hmmm sounds like a solution..lets try it!!
We are so close to our dreams and yet so far from them.
A close person in my life is nearing the most memorable moment of his life and I am not with him. All I get to say is, 'I wish I was there.' Feel so helpless and stuck. As if I have wings but they're tied up. How will I pull through the weekend without thinking and feeling sad about this..
But at times like these I guess you have to leave things to destiny, to the belief that I will get only what is meant for me. So you don't end up thinking about it and don't ignore what you have already got. Hmmm sounds like a solution..lets try it!!
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