The summer heat is enough for us to battle. Let us giving our genius minds a break from the serious thinking (that my excuse for not having a title) and get a little naughty, flirty and wild!
What is it that gets us excited about ourselves instantly? For most of us it is compliments. When you compliment/ flirt with a guy or girl, you give them a moment that makes them feel great about themselves and instantly brings them in a good mood. Especially if it came from a person of the opposite sex.
For those of us, who agree with me read on for more on how to sustain the attention and those of us who think otherwise, don't waste your time.
Why do you prefer Arjun Rampal over Rajpal Yadav, when the latter is a more experienced actor? Because AR looks gorgeous!
Looks and personality are the pre requisites for gathering eye balls. If you are desparate, it will show in the way you dress. If you think you're hot, it will reflect. So don't pretend. The mirror will tell you whether you look good enough or not? The benchmark for this is set by your own taste buds, your exposure to different cultures and your overall lifestyle - It is not so complicated but if you're still lost, ask any girl for help ;P
Second is conversation. However amazing you look it won't work if you can't express. It doesn't mean you have to be talkative or OTT but let your hair down (no one is interested to know your stress details) and be yourself - This is tough to execute for some, easy way out : 3 drinks and good music !
Third is attitude. Don't focus on just 1 person, Ya I know you find just that one guy attractive but don't show it. Play a little. Its fun to test different waters before settling down on one - You will enjoy this the most!
Fourth is believe in yourself, not my random thoughts! You're good and will always stay in the league :)
Fifth says, if you can't do any of the above, don't stress. Just compliment people around you and see the benefits ;) - This is risky because if you're fake, you're rejected forever !
"3 drinks and good music" has Maulshri written all over it ! :P
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